Kind and honest Internet folk, I’m at a complete and utter loss for words. Do you remember that guy who wanted to have an affair with me? How could you not. Well ladies and gentlemen, he’s back.
I kid you not.
He just messaged me with the following note:
“while driving home today, the following songs came up on shuffle
on my ipod, all back-to-back: Bodhi Sappy Weekend (BSS), Oh Sweet
Nothing (VU), I’ll Bring The Sun (Jason Collett), Skinny Boy (Amy
Millan), Transmissions (Joy Division), and Ageless Beauty
(Stars)…and all I could think of was you. I dont know why and
I swear I’m not a stalker or something…lol.
But I was thinking, we have the exact same taste in everything
(though I havent read a couple of the books you mention, and some
of your movies are questionable–sky captain?? lol) and I’m just
fascinated by you. You’re half my age, a girl and yet we’re so
much alike. I guess I want to see just how much…
so, maybe you cant have an affair, but do you want to chat
sometime? I’d love to hear more about you…what you do, what you
want to do, what other stuff you’re into, how someone like you
ended up on a dating site like this…things like that.
write back if you want and if you say ‘no’ or say nothing at all,
I promise to never contact you again. I just thought it was a
musical kismet of sorts and had to write…”
SRSLY?! Who is this guy? Ans what do I do?
My interest is totally piqued, but I feel like I should take the moral high-road and say no.
Internet, lend me your collective wisdom!
you should tell him you put him on a dating blog.
NO
No. Way too high up into the creeposphere.
Make a date but don’t tell him what you look like. Go with a friend so you’re not obviously you, and if he’s hot then go see him and if he’s a creepy old loser then just don’t acknowledge him and pretend to be totally engrossed in whoever you’re there with.